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Boundaries: Because Even Your Phone Has a “Do Not Disturb” Button
Let’s talk about boundaries —you know, that thing you desperately need but feel weird enforcing, like saying no to plans when you’d rather stay home with your dog and a show you’ve already watched three times. A lot of people think boundaries are harsh or selfish. In reality, good boundaries are more like a fence with a gate: people can still come in, but not at 2 a.m., uninvited, holding emotional chaos and a metaphorical suitcase. Boundaries don’t mean: “I don’t love you.”T

Jara Bender
3 days ago4 min read


PSA for Men: One Minute of Foreplay Is Not a Magic Button
Let’s just get this out of the way: a shoulder squeeze and a tongue flick are not foreplay. They are a warm-up to the warm-up. And yet,...

Jara Bender
Jul 183 min read


"It's Not You, It's My Hormones (Okay… It's Also You)"
Hormones: The Invisible Puppeteers of Emotion Hormones like estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone play a huge role in regulating...

Jara Bender
May 132 min read


Mood Magic: How to Build a Daily Routine That Boosts Happiness and Reduces Stress
The Power of Routine: How to Build a Daily Schedule That Elevates Your Mood In a world filled with unpredictability, a well-structured...

Jara Bender
Mar 283 min read


Why Positive Reinforcement Outshines Punishment in Parenting: Insights from Research
Parenting is a delicate balance of nurturing, guiding, and correcting behavior. While many parents default to punishment to address...

Jara Bender
Dec 8, 20243 min read


Is Virtual EMDR as Effective as In-Person? The Research Says Yes
In today’s digital age, mental health services have increasingly moved online, offering convenience and accessibility to those who might...

Jara Bender
Dec 3, 20243 min read
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